Love and romance are two important aspects of an intimate relationship. When looking to develop or maintain a relationship, dating is an important component. Unfortunately, as time passes, many couples become comfortable and stop “dating” each other thinking “We’re together now. I already know I like you.”
But this mindset can have a significant and negative impact on one’s relationship and marriage. Do not let it have the same impact on yours. I’m Dr. Brandye, board-certified OB/GYN, Amazon #1 bestselling author, and women’s sex and pleasure coach. I teach you how to feel good in and out of the bedroom, and help you keep a lack of love and romance from breaking down your relationship!
Love and romance are two important aspects of an intimate relationship.
To prevent you and your partner from falling into the above-mentioned comfort zone, where dating and courting are a thing of the past, knowledge is key. Don’t underestimate the power of a simple date.
A regular date with a partner or spouse can definitely reignite sparks. A date can bring romance back into the relationship. And even if you are not in a serious relationship right now, it is still important to understand dating and its importance. Dating is an easy and important way to get to know a potential partner and start a budding relationship. However, once you are in a serious relationship, dating still should have a prominent place.
If your relationship is that of marriage, dating is a crucial factor in keeping your relationship fresh and alive. In fact, dating can help to save an otherwise failing marriage. This doesn’t mean that each date must be overly romantic or that you have to spend a lot of money to “wow” your husband or wife.
Often times, simply just setting aside time alone with your partner can be enough to help keep the romance alive. And these dates are not the time to discuss household matters or grievances. Make sure to ask questions about favorite memories, dream jobs, bucket lists, and visions for the two of you. Continuing to date will allow you to continue learning about your partner. People change. Our partners change. But once you are in a relationship you have to stay curious about your lover. Each night does not have to be a date, but know that going on a date with your spouse on a consistent basis helps to ensure that love and romance remains a part of the relationship.
Ask questions about favorite memories, dream jobs, bucket lists, and visions for the two of you
As for why dating is important for your marriage. It is important, as it prevents your husband or wife from making assumptions. For example, your wife may believe that you would rather not be seen with her in public or that you are ashamed to showcase your relationship. Skipping out on dating after marriage may unintentionally make your spouse feel as if you don’t care about them anymore.
The absence of dating can also cause boredom and lead to the development of a “ho-hum” relationship. Now every day isn’t always rainbows and unicorns, but keeping the sparks there, staying curious and engaged with your partner goes a long way toward keeping divorce away.
To keep your relationship strong, you will want to make a commitment to plan regular date activities with your partner. Common, popular, and standard date activities, such as dinner and a movie, are nice, but it is also important to think outside of the box. Choose activities that help create romance. If you do opt for a movie with your partner, choose one with a romantic theme, as it can help to ignite the passion.
Unique dating experiences can also help create more romance and improve your intimacy. Spend a weekend at a nice hotel together, take a dinner cruise, or try a fun, yet romantic adventure, like horseback riding. These types of activities can help the sparks to fly in your relationship. Unusual and out of the ordinary dates can be very romantic.
If you and your partner are parents, it is important to know that dating can be complicated, but it is still more than possible. You may find that it is quite difficult to get away without the kids, but it is vital to find a way! There are several options for parents, like you. These options include hiring a babysitter or asking a family member to watch the kids for a few hours. Going out on dates when you are parents who have children takes careful planning, but the effort is more than worth it. Your relationship and intimacy levels can flourish when you are given time alone.
As a recap, dating can build and nourish your relationship. It can also help to improve intimacy, which is an important component of a happy and healthy relationship.
Remember that a strong relationship often translates into more fun, love, and passion in the bedroom. And if you need some help, get your free session with me by clicking here
